Difference dating and a relationship
I was clear about who I was and who (and I stress the ‘who’, as apposed to the ‘what’) I was looking for. I knew what I was and was not willing to compromise on.I knew what kind of relationship I wanted to have and build with someone and I was looking for a person who had the qualities I knew I could build all of these things with.clients mention to me that they are interested in forming close relationships, the first question I ask them is: ‘What is your goal?’ What I want to first understand, or rather, have them get clear on for themselves, is the type of relationship they are interested in having/building.You may find that you are seeking different things based on what your goal is.The clearer you are, the more successful you will be in accomplishing your goal.If you want to get clear on what type of experience you are looking for or want to have, ask yourself what your goal is; what you really want.Whether you are interested in being in a dating relationship with someone, or you are seeking to get married (or both), you will have a much more successful experience when you take the time to get clear on who you are, what qualities you are looking for in another person, and what qualities you are looking for in a relationship.
A few years later, I was ready to date for marriage.
It is as the relationship between the couple grows that expectations also start to grow.
A Relationship is a romantic relationship between two people.
The are usually much more focused, ready to commit, and are interested in building a life with another person.
I have experienced both and in my experience, the approach and process to accomplishing each of the above goals have been different.