Christian dating a non christian what to do im dating my sons girlfriends father
Im sure its only a matter of time before he comes to know the Lord? With so many homes these days not only having personal computers, but also having access to the Internet, will your husband agree with you as to what kind of information to download to your hard-drive?
Im not thinking only of obvious things like pornography.
There are many possible answers of course; being in love, wanting a home of your own, wanting a family of your own, your body clock is ticking, wanting to get away from abusive parents, loneliness. Thats why the Bible says in 2 Corinthians : Do you already have someone in mind and you have been feeling uneasy because you thought that there was a verse like this somewhere but you hadnt yet got around to looking it up? And, as a mother who has wept when her own children have experienced traumas in their own marriages, I am just beginning to understand how the heart of Father God must weep when His children make wrong choices. To stay single until I was sure what the Lord wanted me to do. One road is rough, corrugated, gravelly, uphill, windy The other road is tarred, straight, (at least as far as the eye can see), wide, smooth. We didnt have Him in our marriage; I didnt want Him in our marriage. Its just that my need to feel loved by someone I could see and touch was so desperate, that I didnt take seriously Christs words about being unequally yoked together. Now that Ive repented, and got this sorted out with God, I thought, surely things will improve? We were more interested in the physical side of things, although I made sure that we didnt go all the way.
Most likely he is also thinking he will change you or that your religious zeal will mellow after marriage.
Realize that over 50% of girls and over 40% of guys never date in high school.
The Bible gives us some very clear principles to guide us in making decisions about dating.
What I am sharing with you is the fruit of my experiences, some of which has been very bitter. Tragically, countless thousands of good-living members of wonderful churches know all about Christian terminology and lifestyle and seem so indistinguishable from born again Christians that they have even convinced themselves, and yet the spiritual miracle of new birth has not yet happened in their own lives. So were the Pharisees those religious leaders of Christs day who kept the letter of the law, but it turned out they only knew how to show love their mistaken interpretation of the law. But were finding it hard to contain our sexual urges. (This carries great dangers because many men during this time fool their wives to be into thinking they are Christians.
But are you saying, It will be different for me I now know the hazards to avoid?
b) Be willing to share the financial burden involved?
How will your husbands indifference to the Lord affect your own spiritual growth?
) What if his familys life style is different from yours?
(Bobs people were lovely, but they always invited visitors to go to the local club and play Bingo, and the pokies.