Cynical quotes about dating
Antolini is trying to catch Holden in the midst of a “fall.” But the fall Mr.Antolini describes is very different from the one Holden had imagined.Here, we see how deeply his desire for independence is connected to his feeling of alienation, to the bitterness he has for the rest of the world.Of course, Holden will not really shoot people in this hat, but it remains a symbol of his scorn for convention.In both cases, we sense that although Holden envisions himself as the protector rather than the one to be protected, he is the one who really needs to be caught. Antolini guesses that Holden feels disconnected from his environment, and, as we have already seen, his assessment is accurate.Holden has isolated himself in an attempt to be his own savior, but Mr.It is significant that in the final sentence Holden uses the second-person pronoun “you” instead of the first-person “me.” It seems to be an attempt to distance himself from the inevitable process of change. What I have to do, I have to catch everybody if they start to go over the cliff—I mean if they’re running and they don’t look where they’re going I have to come out from somewhere and catch them. It occurs in Chapter 22, after Holden has slipped quietly back into his apartment and is speaking with Phoebe.
The fact that he is having this conversation with Phoebe, a child who is anything but simple and innocent, reveals the oversimplification of his worldview. Antolini speaks these words takes place in Chapter 24.
And Pam and Jim are my best friends and our kids play together.
That doesn't sound like much, but it's enough for me.
When he actually gets to the museum, he decides not to go in; that would require disturbing his fragile imaginative construction by making it encounter the real world. Holden responds with this image, which reveals his fantasy of idealistic childhood and of his role as the protector of innocence.
He wants life to remain frozen like the display cases in the museum. His response makes sense, given what we already know about Holden: he prefers to retreat into his own imaginary view of the world rather than deal with the complexities of the world around him.